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I. What custody is.
A.
Generally
Custody is where a person becomes
the responsible possessor of another person. The
person about whom custody is in dispute is a minor
or an adult who is mentally disabled. The minor or
mentally disabled person need not be the natural
relative of the person who is seeking custody, but
usually is a relative.
Custody can be requested by an aunt
or uncle; grand parent; cousin; or even a non
relative that the Court deems suitable.
The
most common custody determinations are of minor
children, and are between natural parents of the
child or children.
The person obtaining
custody is able to make all decisions regarding the health, education,
and maintenance of the minor child, and is able to obtain child
support from the non custodial parents.
The parties may agree
to or be ordered into a joint custody agreement. The Court generally
appoints a "primary custodian." This is very nearly the same thing
as sole custody being vested in one party as that party is allowed
to make the major decisions regarding the child, much the same as
the person with sole custody. A true joint custody arrangement calls
for discussion, and even negotiation, and joint decisions regarding
the health, education, welfare, and maintenance of the child. Joint
custody does not mean no child support, unless the time is pretty
evenly split and both parties earnings are equal.
B. Contested versus
Uncontested
Custody litigation is uncontested
if all parties consent to the change in custody,
and there are no terms or issues in dispute.
Custody litigation is contested if the parties
cannot agree on every term or issue regarding the custody determination
of the child. Contested custody determinations usually center around
whether a parent is an unfit person to have custody of the child.
The Court is to determine who is a fit and proper person to have
custody, but, more importantly, is to determine what is in the best
interest of the child.
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II. Rights
A. Child
A
child over the age of 12 has the right to tell the
Judge which parent with whom the child prefers to
live. The Judge does not have to grant the request.
The Judge must do what the Judge feels is in the
best interest of the child.
B. Parents
The
parent who obtains custody of the child has the
right to obtain child support from a parent if
there is a separation or divorce. Either parent may
obtain custody. Obtaining custody vests in the
custodial parent the right to make all decisions
regarding the health, education, welfare, and
maintenance of the child.
C. Unmarried parents
A
father who has not married the mother may still
obtain custody of a minor child, but it is rare.
The mother must be shown to be an unfit mother, and
the father must show that he is a fit and proper
person to have custody of the child. Many times
custody is granted to a grandparent in such a
situation.
D. Grandparents
Grandparents do not always lose
their rights in a custody dispute. However, they
may lose their rights. Further, there is a statute
to help preserve their visitation rights.
E. The Non Custodial
Parent
The parent who loses
custody has the right to obtain visitation rights. These rights
may be set with specific days and times, or they may be general
such as "reasonable" or "liberal." "Reasonable" means upon reasonable
notice, and no less than every other weekend, alternate holidays,
and 2 to 6 weeks in the summer. "Liberal" means any time the non
custodial parent wants to see the child upon short notice. Specific
visitation is generally recommended as it leads to fewer disputes.
Further, the Courts, having seen the results of child rearing without
one of the natural parents, are requiring more time with the non
custodial parent. It is now understood that BOTH natural parents
need to be part of a child's life. The child can observe each parent's
behavior and decide which is more appropriate and which is to be
emulated. Without such observation, the child forms a "rosy" image
of the non custodial parent, and cannot make a reasonable assessment.
The Courts very much frown on the parent who wants to cut off the
other parent, and "raise the child without the other parent."
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III. Procedure
If the
agreement to change custody is uncontested, the
parties can have the lawyer prepare a Consent
Order, the parties can sign it, and the lawyer can
have the Judge sign it.
If the custody is disputed,
and is not part of a divorce case, a petition must be filed with
the Court and the opposing party served.
The
case then proceeds like any other litigation:
written questions are exchanged, documents are
exchanged, depositions are taken, psychologists may
be involved to evaluate the parties, motions are
filed and argued, and a trial is held.
The
Court will eventually make a decision and a written
Order is signed by the Court specifying the rights
of the parties.
IV. Fees
Uncontested
custody: $750.00 to $1,500.00 plus filing
fees of $150.00.
Contested custody: *$5,000.00
retainer against an hourly fee of $250.00 per Hour,
plus expenses and filing fees of $350.00.
Once
the retainer is used, the client is billed on a
Monthly basis for accumulated fees and
costs.
*
Retainers and hourly fees are less for associate
lawyers in the Firm than for partners or principal
lawyers in the Firm.
Filing
fees are what the Court Clerk charges to file the
Petition for custody with the
Court.
Any additional Court
costs are assessed to the losing party ( or the winning Party in
an uncontested matter) and billed later by the Court.
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901-757-5557 for a free appointment to discuss your situation.
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